Teen Outreach
Pregnancy Services Partners with Pregnant and Parenting Teens
Pregnant at age 17, Kaiti Robertson didn’t know what to do.
What she did know was that she had no idea how to be a parent, and she didn’t
have the finances to support a child. The baby’s dad was out of the picture,
and Kaiti had yet to finish high school. “When it came to raising a child, I
didn’t know where to start,” said Kaiti.
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Kaiti and her son, Raedyn |
When a friend told her about Teen Outreach Pregnancy
Services (TOPS), a free program for pregnant and parenting teens, Kaiti eagerly
enrolled. Through TOPS, she would be able to attend support groups with her
peers, attend teen-specific parenting education classes, receive home visits
from a nurse, and get her many questions answered. She would have access to the
support she needed every step of the way.
During her pregnancy, Kaiti was especially grateful for the help
she received from her TOPS nurse, Jasmine. “I didn’t know anything about
pregnancy,” said Kaiti. “Everything I experienced, I thought there was
something wrong.” One day, during her third trimester, Kaiti began feeling
strange spasms in her abdominal area. She
panicked. “I was prepared to go to the hospital,” said Kaiti. But first, she
called Jasmine.
Jasmine assured her that nothing was wrong. Her baby merely
had the hiccups. “Jasmine helped me realize what I was experiencing was normal,”
said Kaiti.
Now, Kaiti is the proud mother of a healthy 6-week old boy, Raedyn.
Together, they live at home with her parents. “I didn’t think I could raise a
baby on my own, but at TOPS, I know I have the support I need.” said Kaiti. “I
met people in my same situation. TOPS helped me feel more confident.”
Kaiti said that the parenting classes she has attended have
been particularly helpful. “I don’t think there was anything that I knew about
parenting before these classes,” said Kaiti. “We learn about everything, from
the importance of bonding to eating healthy.” Like many of the other girls at
TOPS, Kaiti had been terrified of giving birth. The support groups and classes
helped with that, too. Together, the girls watched labor videos and laughed as
they learned birthing breathing techniques.
By attending the parenting education classes offered at
TOPS, teens earn “TOPS dollars,” which they can redeem for baby items and
necessities at Jensen’s Corner, a small “shop” located at the TOPS office. With
her TOPS dollars, Kaiti was able to purchase a crib for Raedyn.
TOPS also helps teens plan for the future, and teens can
stay in the program until their baby turns 2. This fall, Kaiti is working on
completing her GED, and will then begin a job hunt. “Everyone here at TOPS is
supportive, helping you make the best decisions for you and your baby,” said
Kaiti. With the help of TOPS, Kaiti is looking forward to her future of
motherhood and watching Raedyn grow and learn.
In Yavapai County,
Teen Outreach Pregnancy Services (TOPS) is funded by First Things First. For
more information about TOPS or to enroll a teen, please visit
teenoutreachaz.org.